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Keys Before Rings: Where Single Women Are Buying Homes on Their Own

Single woman in her newly purchased home

Key Takeaways

  • In 2025, nearly 360,000 women purchased a home in the U.S. on their own

  • In top-ranked New Orleans, 17.4% of homes – about 1 in 6 – were purchased by single women

  • Single women buy homes at nearly twice the rate in the top five cities vs the bottom five

  • Formerly affordable metros like Phoenix and Dallas rank among the worst for single female homebuying

Women are no longer waiting for permission, a partner, or perfect timing to buy a home.

For generations, marriage was a precursor to homeownership. Before 1974, women weren’t legally permitted to obtain a mortgage without a male cosigner, says the Smithsonian.

Now, solo women are about one in six buyers in top markets. Single females are saying, in the words of Ariana Grande, “I want it, I got it.”

Homeownership is becoming the ultimate flex. Independence, wealth, status. All in one move. And the numbers show it.

Mortgage Research Network analyzed 2025 Home Mortgage Disclosure Act (HMDA) data and found that single female homebuyers account for a surprising share of home purchases in several U.S. metros. Women are refusing to put life plans on hold while waiting for a partner.

The study ranked the 50 largest U.S. metropolitan areas by the share of home purchase mortgages in which a female under 45 is the only borrower on the application.

New Orleans claimed the top spot, where nearly 17.4% of all home purchase loans went to single women. Hartford, Conn., Buffalo, N.Y., Baltimore, Md., and Birmingham, Ala., rounded out the top five.

The Rankings: Where Single Women Are Buying Homes

The Top 10 Cities for Single Female Homebuyers (2025)

Rank Metro % of Purchases by Single Females Average Home Price Single Female Homebuyer Income
n/a United States 11.4% $368,198 $112,000
1 New Orleans, LA 17.4% $261,919 $74,000
2 Hartford, CT 16.2% $394,221 $88,000
3 Buffalo, NY 15.5% $282,896 $75,000
4 Baltimore, MD 15.2% $402,887 $92,000
5 Birmingham, AL 14.6% $259,928 $67,000
6 Memphis, TN 14.5% $245,951 $71,000
7 Cleveland, OH 14.4% $248,141 $71,000
8 Atlanta, GA 14.3% $381,835 $90,000
9 Pittsburgh, PA 14.2% $228,113 $70,000
10 Philadelphia, PA 14.2% $386,647 $88,000

Single Female Homebuying Share Swings Widely By Location

Across the top five metros, single female buyers account for an average of 15.8% of all purchase mortgages.

Across the bottom five metros, they account for just 7.6%.

Single women command more than twice as much market share in the top-ranked cities as they do in the lowest-ranked metros.

The contrast is especially evident in some of America's most expensive housing markets.

San Jose ranked last, with single female buyers accounting for just 6.5% of purchase loans. Expensive locales like San Diego, San Francisco, Riverside and Seattle also landed near the bottom of the rankings.

Top 25 large US metros where single women are buying homes

Affordability a Major Factor

Top metros for female homeownership have this in common: they are relatively affordable.

The average home value across the top 10 metros is roughly $309,000. Bottom 10? $818,000.

That half-million-dollar home price gap translates to very different outcomes.

While women are increasingly purchasing homes on their own, affordability still matters when buying on a single income, regardless of gender.

Single Female Homebuying Rank Metro Average Home Price % of Purchases by Single Females
n/a United States $368,198 11.4%
50 San Jose, CA $1,627,300 6.5%
48 San Francisco, CA $1,145,541 7.8%
43 Los Angeles, CA $969,589 9.2%
49 San Diego, CA $943,055 6.9%
45 Seattle, WA $755,116 8.9%

The West Coast, especially California, is over-represented when it comes to tough markets for single women. Many of the strongest markets, though, are located in the Midwest, South, and Northeast, where home prices remain realistic for area incomes.

Bottom 25 metros for single female homebuyers

Why Single Women Aspire to Homeownership

The 2025 HMDA data shows that women aren’t afraid to put down roots in a community on their own.

Why are women increasingly making this move?

Marriage is happening later. The median age of first marriage in the U.S. is 28 for women, up from 21 in 1975, according to the Census Bureau. The trend has provided one of the most basic homeownership building blocks: time. The more of it, the more opportunity to increase levels of work experience and income.

Women are outperforming men educationally. Forbes says women now earn 58% of bachelor’s degrees and 62% of master’s in the U.S. This means greater chances of high-earning employment than their male counterparts with lower levels of education.

Women want to secure their independence. Among Gen Z, single women accounted for 35% of homebuyers in their age group versus 18% for men, says the Associated Press, citing NAR numbers. AP credits this lopsided performance to the desire to stand on their own two feet.

Women with Higher Incomes Have the Most Homebuying Success

There is a huge income gap between female homebuyers and the broader single-female population.

In New Orleans, for example, the median income of single female homebuyers was $74,000.

That's more than double the city's typical single-female income of roughly $36,000.

The pattern repeats throughout the rankings.

Single Female Homebuying Rank Metro Single Female Homebuyer Income Overall Single Female Income
n/a United States $112,000 $40,685
1 New Orleans, LA $74,000 $36,428
2 Hartford, CT $88,000 $46,260
3 Buffalo, NY $75,000 $41,682
4 Baltimore, MD $92,000 $50,613
5 Birmingham, AL $67,000 $40,717

While homeownership remains achievable on a single income, the buyers successfully entering today's market tend to have earnings well above average for their local area.

That doesn't mean homeownership is out of reach for lower-income women. It does suggest that income remains one of the biggest dividing lines between women who aspire to buy and women who are currently able to buy.

Areas to Watch

The rankings revealed where single women are thriving and struggling in today’s real estate market.

The South and Midwest lead. Eight of the top ten cities are in the South or Midwest, perhaps not the first regions one thinks of for female economic equality. Yet these markets are producing the highest concentrations of solo female homebuyers in the country. This challenges assumptions about where female financial independence is being achieved.

Atlanta punches above its weight. As the eighth-ranked city and the largest metro in the top 10, Atlanta's 14.3% single female buyer share means nearly 10,000 single women entered the real estate market here in 2025 alone. Atlanta was also recognized by Mortgage Research Network as the top city for another disadvantaged group in real estate: Black homebuyers.

Pennsylvania shines, Phoenix faulters. At numbers nine and 10 respectively, Pittsburgh and Philadelphia both boast a 14.2% share of single female homebuyers. At an average home price of $307,000 between the two cites, Pennsylvania is an affordable haven. Phoenix, however, ranked 44th on the list, not much higher than cities in California, with just a 9.1% share of the market claimed by single women.

From Illegal to Dominant

Single women, once banned from buying a home alone, are now a dominant force in many markets.

Nationwide, nearly 360,000 home purchase loans were obtained by single female borrowers in 2025.

No, women aren’t waiting around to start building wealth and establishing roots. They have the income, education, and grit to make it happen on their own.

50 Metros for Single Female Homebuyers: Full Rankings

Rank Metro % of Purchases by Single Females Average Home Price Single Female Homebuyer Income
n/a United States 11.4% $368,198 $112,000
1 New Orleans, LA 17.4% $261,919 $74,000
2 Hartford, CT 16.2% $394,221 $88,000
3 Buffalo, NY 15.5% $282,896 $75,000
4 Baltimore, MD 15.2% $402,887 $92,000
5 Birmingham, AL 14.6% $259,928 $67,000
6 Memphis, TN 14.5% $245,951 $71,000
7 Cleveland, OH 14.4% $248,141 $71,000
8 Atlanta, GA 14.3% $381,835 $90,000
9 Pittsburgh, PA 14.2% $228,113 $70,000
10 Philadelphia, PA 14.2% $386,647 $88,000
11 Louisville, KY 14.2% $280,366 $63,000
12 Detroit, MI 13.7% $266,496 $72,000
13 St. Louis, MO 13.5% $273,427 $70,000
14 Chicago, IL 13.4% $349,901 $86,000
15 Virginia Beach, VA 13.4% $371,148 $84,000
16 Richmond, VA 13.3% $393,943 $83,000
17 Indianapolis, IN 12.8% $293,854 $72,000
18 Cincinnati, OH 12.7% $308,063 $74,000
19 Oklahoma City, OK 12.6% $245,682 $69,000
20 Minneapolis, MN 12.4% $391,192 $85,000
21 Houston, TX 12.2% $308,211 $88,000
22 Charlotte, NC 12.2% $388,846 $89,000
23 Washington, DC 12.1% $582,461 $118,000
24 Tampa, FL 12.1% $359,150 $91,000
25 Jacksonville, FL 11.8% $351,554 $77,000
26 Columbus, OH 11.7% $329,878 $78,000
27 Providence, RI 11.6% $520,157 $102,000
28 Milwaukee, WI 11.5% $384,264 $75,000
29 San Antonio, TX 11.4% $280,170 $71,000
30 Raleigh, NC 11.4% $438,344 $94,000
31 Kansas City, MO 11.3% $326,895 $75,000
32 Miami, FL 11.2% $473,725 $120,000
33 Orlando, FL 10.8% $386,582 $93,000
34 Nashville, TN 10.7% $455,068 $87,000
35 New York, NY 10.7% $718,397 $135,000
36 Las Vegas, NV 10.6% $430,838 $90,000
37 Denver, CO 10.6% $575,130 $105,000
38 Boston, MA 10.4% $736,881 $122,000
39 Dallas, TX 10.3% $366,743 $93,000
40 Austin, TX 10.2% $430,490 $101,000
41 Portland, OR 9.8% $551,941 $105,000
42 Sacramento, CA 9.3% $581,956 $123,000
43 Los Angeles, CA 9.2% $969,589 $165,000
44 Phoenix, AZ 9.1% $448,933 $86,000
45 Seattle, WA 8.9% $755,116 $125,000
46 Salt Lake City, UT 8.8% $568,981 $96,500
47 Riverside, CA 8.1% $586,623 $120,000
48 San Francisco, CA 7.8% $1,145,541 $174,000
49 San Diego, CA 6.9% $943,055 $148,000
50 San Jose, CA 6.5% $1,627,300 $207,000

Methodology

Rankings are based on 2025 Home Mortgage Disclosure Act (HMDA) data accessed via PolygonResearch.com (May 21, 2026), filtering for primary residence purchase loans on 1-4 unit properties where a female under 45 was the sole applicant. The 50 largest U.S. metros were identified using Zillow's size ranking. Home values reflect the Zillow Home Value Index (ZHVI) for all homes as of April 30, 2026. General single-female income figures are based on published ACS estimates.

About The Author:

Tim Lucas began his mortgage career in 2001 at Washington Mutual, reviewing wholesale loan files submitted by mortgage brokers. In the mid-2000s, he transitioned to retail lending at M&T Bank as a Mortgage Loan Processor, working everyone from first-time buyers to jumbo buyers financing $1–5 million homes.

Tim later launched his own loan processing company while originating loans for his own clients including FHA and USDA loans for first-time buyers. He eventually became a Mortgage Processing Supervisor, leading a team of processors. There, he earned a reputation as a solutions-oriented processor who could solve complex loan scenarios and uncover obscure solutions.

In 2013, Tim transitioned to mortgage education, creating trusted content for sites like MyMortgageInsider.com and TheMortgageReports.com. Today, he blends 10+ years of hands-on mortgage experience with a decade in consumer education at Three Creeks Media, where he leads MortgageResearch.com. Tim is also a licensed Loan Originator (NMLS #118763).

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